You want a good tea? Higher your standards!

I need to talk about tea, because I have been quietly suffering about it for a while now.

In China, tea is not a hot drink. It is a whole opinion. Where I grew up, “a good tea” means the leaves, the water, the temperature, the second and third steeping that are often better than the first. You don’t rush it. You don’t drown it in sugar. You certainly don’t leave the bag in until the cup turns the colour of a wooden table.

Then I came to Albania, where I was handed – with enormous warmth and pride – a çaj that was mostly sugar wearing a tea costume. And everyone looked at me so happily that I drank it, smiled, and said it was lovely. Reader: I have said it was lovely many times now.

I don’t want to start an international incident, so let me be fair. Albanian mountain tea – the real çaj mali, the kind that actually comes off a hillside – is genuinely wonderful, and I’ve become a little obsessed with it. That one, we agree on completely. My quarrel is strictly with the version that is ninety percent sugar and served scalding in a glass that burns three of my fingers.

So here is my gentle, foreign, entirely unsolicited advice to my adopted city: you already have good tea growing on your own mountains. Raise your standards. Steep it a little longer, sweeten it a little less, and let the leaf do the talking.

I will, of course, keep drinking whatever you hand me and telling you it’s lovely. Some standards are worth keeping. Politeness is one of them.

Yang Wang is a Liaoning transplant who runs a small Chinese massage parlour a short walk from Bulevardi Myslym Shyri – and has strong feelings about tea.

When Liaoning Mothers Used Mud Cakes in Winter

Liaoning province, in the northeast of China, is cold. Not the Mediterranean kind of cold that Tirana has in February, where you can walk outdoors in a wool coat and feel pleasantly chilled. The Liaoning winter is a serious matter. Temperatures drop to minus twenty in January. The wind off the sea finds every gap in every wall. For most of the year, daily life is built around the management of cold.

In the village where my grandmother lived — about an hour outside Tieling — winter preparation began in October. The cellar filled with cabbage, daikon, sweet potatoes, dried mushrooms. The thick quilted bedding came out of the storage chests. The braziers were checked. And, in many households, the mud cakes were prepared.

I want to write about this practice because I think it explains something important about how a treatment we now offer in our parlour in Tirana originally lived in ordinary kitchens, ordinary winters, ordinary families — long before anyone thought to put it on a price list.

How the mud cakes came to be in the house

My grandmother’s mud cakes — the ones she used on my mother every December when her winter belly started — were not bought. They were made.

The recipe had been passed down in the family from at least my great-grandmother, possibly earlier. The ingredients were ordinary, mostly local, and combined according to a sequence my grandmother performed without thinking, the way an experienced cook makes dumplings.

The base was a particular kind of clay sourced from a river bank about twenty kilometres from the village. Once a year, in late summer, one of my uncles would drive out with a shovel and a few canvas sacks to collect the year’s supply. The clay was washed several times, dried on flat boards in the sun, ground in a stone mill, and stored in a sealed jar in the pantry.

In autumn, the mugwort was harvested from the hills above the village. The plants were cut, hung upside down in bundles in the attic, dried for a month, and the leaves were then stripped from the stems and ground to a coarse powder.

When the cakes were to be made — usually in late November, in time for the coldest months — the powdered clay was mixed with the mugwort, with cinnamon bark purchased from the herbalist in town, with a little dried ginger, and with one or two other ingredients I never fully learned because the recipe was somewhat closely held even within the family. The mixture was moistened with warm water, kneaded like a dough, and formed into flat cakes about the size of a hand and half a centimetre thick. The cakes were dried slowly on a warm stone near the stove, then wrapped in cloth and stored in a wooden box near the chimney.

By the time the winter cold-belly season arrived, the cakes were ready.

Who used them, and how

My grandmother used them on my mother, her daughter-in-law, when the winter belly came on her every year. She also used them on herself, on her own lower back, when the cold weather brought out the joint pain she had developed in her sixties.

The cake was warmed on the stove — never directly on the heat, but on a metal tray placed above the heat, slowly, until it was warm to the touch but not hot. It was then placed on the affected area, and a small bundle of moxa was lit above it. The treatment took about half an hour. My grandmother would sit in the chair next to the bed, knitting or talking quietly, watching the moxa carefully so that the heat was always the right intensity.

When the treatment was over, the cake was wrapped back in its cloth and returned to the box. The same cake could be used many times over the winter — only when it had crumbled and lost integrity would a new one be made.

This was not, in our family, a medical treatment in the modern sense. It was a household practice. It was as ordinary as making chicken broth for a cold or applying a hot compress to a stiff neck. The grandmothers did it. The mothers learned to do it. The daughters watched, and eventually learned themselves.

That this practice corresponds, almost exactly, to a treatment described in the Huangdi Neijing — the foundational text of Chinese medicine, compiled around the second century BCE — is something I only learned much later, in medical school. The connection between my grandmother’s hands and an ancient text was not something she would have considered relevant. She knew what she was doing because her mother had shown her.

From a village kitchen to a treatment room

I moved to Tirana in 2020, carrying this memory of my grandmother’s kitchen with me. What struck me, over the years since, was how strange it felt to take something that had simply been there — as ordinary in our house as a pot of broth on the stove — and one day write it on a treatment menu with a duration and a price beside it.

There is a particular Tirana feeling I have come to know well: the friend who hears what I do for a living, waves a hand, and says her cousin “knows someone” for everything. A plumber, a notary, a man with a van, and now, apparently, mud and moxa. The instinct to keep these things in the family, off the books, between people who trust each other, is not so different from how my grandmother kept her recipe — somewhat closely held, passed by hand rather than written down. (I have written elsewhere about the year of the Fire Horse and the small Chinese-calendar markers of my year — these family practices live alongside that bigger seasonal rhythm.)

Why this still matters

I do not bring up these old practices because I want to romanticise them. There are things modern medicine does that traditional practices cannot. Insulin saves lives. Antibiotics save lives. The MRI scanner sees inside the body in ways no pair of hands ever could.

But there are also things that modern medicine, in its rush toward measurement and intervention, has stopped being good at. The slow work of restoring a body that has been chronically depleted. The treatment of patterns rather than single diagnostic codes. The understanding that warmth, applied thoughtfully and over time, changes the body in ways that no pill can replicate.

Mud moxibustion is one of those slow treatments. We offer it in our parlour in Tirana because it works for the patterns it is designed to address — patterns my grandmother in Liaoning would have recognised at a glance, and which she certainly never needed a research trial to confirm.

When I prepare a mud cake for a client now — using mud and herbs imported from a producer in Shandong rather than collected from a river bank, prepared in our treatment room rather than a kitchen — I am performing, with small adjustments, the same intervention my grandmother performed decades ago in a village in Liaoning. The technology has not changed. The body has not changed. What works still works.

A small ritual I have started

I have begun, with first-time mud moxibustion clients, mentioning this history briefly during the intake. Not as a sales pitch — the treatment will work or not work on its own merits — but as context. Several clients have told me afterwards that knowing the treatment came from grandmothers, in real homes, made it feel more meaningful to them than something handed over in a cold consulting room.

I think they are right. Some kinds of healing belong to a longer tradition than a single profession or a single century. To offer them well, we have to remember where they came from.

That is part of why we offer this treatment in Tirana. Not because it is exotic, but because it is, in its origins, much closer to home than people might think.

Yang Wang practises mud moxibustion and other Chinese medicine modalities at Chinese Massage – Tai Chi Tirana. The parlour is in central Tirana, a short walk from Bulevardi Myslym Shyri.

Discover a Taste of Home in Albania

Six years ago, I arrived in Tirana, not knowing what life in Albania would be like. I was a Chinese woman stepping into a new chapter, full of curiosity but also uncertainty. Today, Tirana is not just where I live – it’s truly my home.
Over the years, I’ve built a life here filled with meaningful connections. I’ve met many kind and wonderful people who have made me feel welcomed, respected, and cared for. Their friendship has softened the distance between me and my family in China. It’s a rare and beautiful thing to find such warmth so far from home.
This morning, something small yet deeply touching happened. A friend surprised me with a package of dehydrated fruit – straight from China. Just opening the bag released a familiar, sweet scent that instantly took me back. The taste was exactly as I remembered from my childhood – chewy, slightly tangy, and full of nostalgia.
It reminded me of Liaoning, the province where I was born and raised. I miss the changing seasons, the rhythm of the streets, and the comforting flavors of local snacks I grew up with. I miss my parents’ voices echoing in the house and the way everything felt safe and known.
Sometimes, it’s the smallest gestures that bring the deepest emotions. A simple snack, shared with thoughtfulness, became a powerful reminder of home – and of how lucky I am to have found a second one here in Albania.

A Secret Pleasure in Tirana: The Gift of Chinese Massage

Tirana moves fast. The horns, the traffic, the meetings, the endless to-do lists. The city hums with ambition—stylish people, full cafés, the beat of a modern capital finding its rhythm in the Western Balkans. But by the time the sun dips behind the Lana River, even the strongest feel it: tension in the neck, pressure behind the eyes, a tightness in the chest that says enough for today.

And this is where the ritual begins. Quietly.

Relaxation massage session at Chinese Massage - Tai Chi TiranaYou slip off the busy streets and into a calm, fragrant space. The lights are soft. The sounds fade. A pair of expert hands greet your back like old friends. You surrender.

This is not just any massage. This is Traditional Chinese Massage—the kind that doesn’t simply knead muscles but awakens energy, unblocks what’s stuck, and leaves your body humming with quiet vitality.

More Than Relaxation

It’s not flashy. It doesn’t need to be. The movements are deliberate, rooted in thousands of years of practice. A thumb along the spine, the stretch of a shoulder, the warm press of a palm on tired legs. There’s an elegance to it, a dance of touch and intention.

You feel heat returning to your limbs. You feel breath returning to your belly. You feel… whole again.

A Treat You Deserve

Relaxation massage session at Chinese Massage - Tai Chi TiranaThere’s something indulgent about it—like slipping into silk sheets, like finishing a dark espresso alone on a rainy afternoon. It’s intimate, not just with the body, but with yourself.

And in a city like Tirana, where life is always moving, where everyone is trying to get ahead, this is your secret pleasure. A gift you give yourself—not because you have time, but because you know you’re worth it.

The Next Day

You walk differently the next morning. Your posture tells a story. Your skin glows, your smile is unhurried. People notice. They ask if you’ve slept better, if something’s changed.

You just say, I had a massage.

But you know—it was more than that.

It was a reset. A reward. A return to yourself.